One of the ways you can begin to create change in your life by tapping into the Law of Attraction is a simple technique from N. L. P. ( Neuro Linguistic Programming) called "Acting As If."
1)Begin by deciding on how you would like your life to be.
Maybe you'd like to be in different line of work or live in a different area. You could want to be slimmer or fit. You might want to own real estate or be a painter.
2.) Take a piece of paper and list the different things in your life you don't like or want changed.
Across from those entries, write the opposite or flip side. These entries must be about you; something you can do, be or have in your life. We can't change anyone else, only ourselves so it's pointless to focus on someone else changing for us.
For example, you write "I'm 20 lbs. overweight". The opposite would be: "I am at my ideal weight and in great physical shape". Or you might write: "I am miserable in my relationship". The flip side of that would be "I am in a relationship where I am happyand fulfilled".
Remember, this is for your eyes only so get it all out no matter how large or small. Make sure you write the flip side of how you want it.
3.) Next, categorize the items and group them accordingly.
You might have Health and Fitness, Career, Finances, Relationships, Family, Spirituality, Fun/Creativity and Home to list a few.
Write each category and the desired results on a separate page. As you look them over, you will probably notice a common theme. There will likely be several common entries focused around a single outcome.
4.) At the bottom of each page, write a paragraph describing your desired result.
5.) Studying each desired result, think about how you would be acting if this result were true right now.
What would you be doing that is different from what you've been doing? Or, how would you have acted/behaved to have achieved your desire?
Using our example of the relationship, you would be happy and fulfilled.
What in a relationship would give you a feeling of happiness?
Is it being treated with respect? Someone helping out? Someone listening when you speak? Or could it be you doing some of the things that you love but have put aside?
6.) Having identified how you would be doing things differently or have done them differently, you begin to act "As If" you are that person.
One of the best ways to have this technique work is to Play-Act. Just ask yourself, "If I were (fill in with desired result) how would I act or handle this situation?"
"If I were someone who was treated with respect, how would I handle a situation where someone did not treat me with respect?"
"If I owned real estate, how would I have acquired all these properties?"
"If I were a painter, what would I be painting?"
Now, begin to Act As If you are that person and do those things.You can start with small steps or make great sweeping changes.
Either way, you'll be doing something different than you've been doing. That alone will create change in your life!
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